One day this last week, I left Addy with a friend for a few hours while Brandon and I went to the temple. I thought she'd do fine, but maybe cry a little bit first, because after all, where was her mama? When we came back to pick her up, my friend told me she didn't cry at all, was laughing and smiling the whole time, and she actually ran away from me and up the stairs when I tried to give her a hug. The nerve!
The next day, I went to a spinning class at the gym and thought I'd give the kid's area a try (she had never been there before). I dropped her off, anxious as can be, even peeking in on her a few times before the class started. She did great! She played with the other kids, ate a snack, and had so much fun. Again, the babysitter reported she didn't cry when I left and was smiling and enjoying herself. She actually started to cry when I tried to pick her up and take her home! Apparently, I'm not nearly as fun as the play area at Gold's Gym.
I guess I should be pleased that she is well adjusted and can hold her own and be independent in new situations. But a tiny part of me feels sad that she doesn't miss me, even a little bit...can't a girl show a little emotion so Mom knows she's needed? Apparently not.
I can't believe she's 18 months old. Goodbye, baby. Hello, brave little girl!
Stowaway, anyone?
12 on the 12th--January 2020 Edition
6 years ago
9 comments:
Maybe she's just letting you know that she's ready to share you with a sibling???
At least she's good at making new friends! She'll be ready for kindergarten in no time. ;)
18 months!! Here comes nursery!!
Sadly, I know 20 something year olds who can barely leave their mother's side. (Honest!) You have done a great job with her. Don't worry, she'll need you again. When she's a teenager and she needs rides and money for the mall! Ha,ha!
Oh man, I have to say I am jealous! That is wonderful that you can leave her and get away for a few minutes--even at the gym! That is fantastic. By the way, I am starting to see more Carlson in her. What a doll!
She is darling. I am jealous that you can leave her. Be grateful--it is good for her and makes your life so much easier!
I am not a mother, but I have read a lot about families. I am pretty sure that is good sign :)
Also, I have to address your comment on Ashley's blog...why is AI dead to you?
Here's my take: Your little darling has had 18 months of observing the master party planner and fun-loving Mommy in action; and has decided she wants to give it a whirl too! She probably takes after you and is blessed with a natural charm that she is ready to use.
I know how you feel though, I am almost ALWAYS sad to see each childhood stage say goodbye. They seriously do get big too, too fast. ~sniff, sniff~
heck yes i'll take her
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